Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Good for you

When people find out my upcoming organ donation, I get a range of comments usually with adjectives like generosity, admirable, courage, sacrifice, etc. The one I like the most is when someone says "good for you" and typically this is often said by strangers like a nurse, technician, etc when they find out about it.  

So in my own way, I was trying to list why it was good for me and then I found this list in WaitlistZero which pretty much captures it. 

Benefits reported in the scholarly literature include
  • Deep gratification in helping another person. 
  • Desire to improve the recipient’s quality of life and health
  • Improving their own quality of life
  • Avoiding the loss of the loved one
  • Improving the quality of life for the recipient
  • Increased self-esteem
  • Improved relationship with the recipient
  • Positively influencing the lives of family and loved ones.

There is additional research on well-being/happiness that indicates gratitude can increases happiness, so there is additional derived benefit. 

2 comments:

  1. Very nice Rajesh. These traits describe you so well

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  2. I have always been very proud of our sons and family. I am more than Happy today when I read and re read, the concluding part of your latest blog. A True Brother. Appa. I know both of you DO what is right and to be DONE also.

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