When people find out my upcoming organ donation, I get a range of comments usually with adjectives like generosity, admirable, courage, sacrifice, etc. The one I like the most is when someone says "good for you" and typically this is often said by strangers like a nurse, technician, etc when they find out about it.
So in my own way, I was trying to list why it was good for me and then I found this list in WaitlistZero which pretty much captures it.
Benefits reported in the scholarly literature include
- Deep gratification in helping another person.
- Desire to improve the recipient’s quality of life and health
- Improving their own quality of life
- Avoiding the loss of the loved one
- Improving the quality of life for the recipient
- Increased self-esteem
- Improved relationship with the recipient
- Positively influencing the lives of family and loved ones.
There is additional research on well-being/happiness that indicates gratitude can increases happiness, so there is additional derived benefit.
Very nice Rajesh. These traits describe you so well
ReplyDeleteI have always been very proud of our sons and family. I am more than Happy today when I read and re read, the concluding part of your latest blog. A True Brother. Appa. I know both of you DO what is right and to be DONE also.
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